September 27th, 2012

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1946 Wedding....88, Royapettah High Road....

Thanks to my cousin, Ganapathi Vibhu, I got this amazing treasure...the invitation to my parents' wedding!

Both my mother, and her younger sister, were married on the same day...and the marriage was held at my grandparents' home (I do wonder what Mylapore looked like in 1947!)

Here's the English invitation:

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And here's the Tamizh invitation:

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The invitation asks guests to "send their rations in advance"!

The invitation is also shaped this way, so it could be folded and mailed as it was, without another envelope:

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....but this is more about 88, Royapettah High Road now!


The house where my parents got married stood, until recenly as a part of Vidya Mandir School. From the first floor, one could see the gopuram of the Kapaleeshwarar temple, and the frontage received the cool evening sea breeze in such profusion that one could actually sleep without a fan...and I don't remember mosquitoes (isn't that incredible, in hot, humid Chennai?)

The aunt who got married in this house, lived there with her husband for many, many years. It was a social hub, with relatives and friends visiting (it' in Luz, in the heart of Mylapore)....there was a large garden, with mango trees that yielded delicious fruit...a style of life that's gone for ever now. We, as children, used to play in the garden all afternoon, never minding the heat, and we'd be called inside to have "thayir shaatham"...we'd sit around in a circle, and whoever the female relative was in charge, would tell us a story and drop the curd rice into our hands, while banana leaves or banana flower "petals" held vegetables or sambar in front of each child..simple, filling food.

My mother's elder sister (Ganapathi's parents) moved from Mayilaaduthurai (Mayavaram) and also lived on the first floor for many years. Everyone was very accomplished at academics and music....Vibhu Periappa's family produced many musicians.

There was a large pooja room, and a 'dressing' room...two rooms were sectioned off to give some privacy, but it was mostly communal sleeping arrangements...all of us would spread "paay" (rush mats) on the floor, or "jamakkaalam" (dhurries) and sleep.

The servants used to live with my aunt and uncle for over 40 years...Govindan, Annamma (his sister) and their families formed part of the group, too. A feudal system, which worked. My uncle's office (Amar Dye Chem) driver was Krishnan, and he too was with them for decades.. driving the trusty Ambassador car that they had.

Foodgrains used to come in from the village of Nagaipattinam, to which my uncle belonged...it never occurred to me then that my uncle's salary could not possibly provide enough for all the people who ate there!

My uncle's family had a business, providing various articles to the Railways, but it was concluded after a while.

I remember the ancient, beautiful "easy chair" that my uncle would relax in...the green trees through the big windows...the stately beauty of the high-ceilinged house, where sparrow would make nests in the "cups" above the ceiling fans.

The telephone was in a nook under the stairs, and the wall was scribbled over with numbers. We could talk to relatives in other cities only by booking a "Trunk Call" (in three categories, Ordinary, Urgent and Lightning!) and it could take a few days for the call to come through!

Women having their periods were segregated to a little, ill-lit, ill-ventilated passage in the back of the house, and they had to use the rustic toilet at the bottom of the garden.They could have their meals only when the others had finished. I can't say it was a very pleasant arrangement! I know a lot of hypocrisy went on, too, with some women concealing the fact that they were having their periods...or taking "Primolut-C" to delay it during their visit to the house...I wonder how many miscarriages could be attributed to taking estrogen pills indiscriminately.

Such random memories occur to me as I gaze at my parents' wedding invitation...I never knew it was called "Madhava Vilas" (Residence of Krishna)..I remember the beautiful profusion of scarlet Bougainvillea over the front gate, as well as Oleander bushes.

Oh well, that was a short peek into the past...rare for me to indulge in nostalgia.
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Railway Retiring Rooms....and key words...

I was looking for the amenities available to passenger in various Indian railway stations, and just could not find anything that told me what was available, especially in the way of staying at the station itself. I posted on FB, and promptly got a lot of excellent links from friends.

I had overlooked the key words....in India, stations have "Retiring Rooms" (where one can get tired all over again? On the contrary, many of them are well-maintained...and hardly used!)

So...I am giving here the link that I got from helpful friends...thanks, Sharbari Lahiri (from Canada!), Sridhar Parthasarathy, and Rama Warrier.

this one

and I hope it comes in handy for me one day soon!
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Animusic...

I posted on Facebook just now, "With so many interesting YouTube clips today, I am that ancient Chinese lady, Wat Ching."

Here's one of the nicest I watched:



How would one tune that...and could one program that instrument to produce music that was fed into it in the right format?

Intrigues me! asakiyume, what do you think?