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Something that's disappearing...

Walking in BTM Layout today, I spotted this laughing young girl:


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She is wearing the "dhAvaNi", which is also called the "half-saree". It is a "pAvAdai-shattai" (long skirt and blouse) worn with a half-saree. Most south Indian young girls used to wear this once upon a time; my theory is, that the girls attaining puberty would have the remnants of sarees from older family members and would wear that along with the pAvAdai-sattai that they already possessed. The developing bosom had to be covered, in our prudish culture, so the pAvAdai-sattai of the younger days had to include the dhAvaNi, also. How did the dhAvaNi get its name? I don't know.

The dhAvani in Tamizh culture and literature symbolizes the girl's attaining maturity in many ways. There's a movie by Bhagyaraj called "dhAvaNik kanavugaL" (dhAvaNi dreams)...and I still remember the lovely old song, "pAvAdai dhAvaniyil pArtha uruvamA?...ivaL poovadai veeshi vara, poottha paruvamA?" (Is this the form that I saw in pAvAdai dhAvaNi, is she blooming and redolent of floral fragrance?")

A lovely thing about that song...the primary rhymes are "uruvamA" and "paruvamA"..but the secondary rhymes, "pAvAdai" and "poovAdai"....one is "pAvAdai"..."pAvai + Adai" ...the garment that a pAvai, or a girl, wears; and the other is "poovAdai"..."poo + vAdai"...flower + fragrance.

What mastery of the language these lyrics show....

The half-saree is such an essential part of Tamizh culture....I wonder how many young women wear it any more. In the old days, when a young woman got married, she had to start wearing "pudavai" or sarees, and put by the attire of her unmarried girlhood.

I actually studied in a south Indian school in Calcutta which had both skirts/shirts and half-sarees as the uniform for the girls. The sight of this young girl brought back many pleasant memories...
Tags: culture, fashions, memories, photography, saree, tamizh
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