"Kitty, a fair but frozen maid
Kindled a flame I yet deplore
The hoodwink'd boy I called to aid,
Though of his near approach afraid,
So fatal to my suit before."
And I got this explanation, which, I must say, stunned me....
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My goodness, three answers to the riddle, one of them extremely "naughty" for Jane Austen's time! Well, I don't blush, thank goodness...but some of what the writer speculates on AFTER talking about the riddle might make me do so!